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Resources for Smashing Idols

On Sunday we covered 1 Corinthians 10 which was a call away from idolatry and toward the Lord. Because the Lord loves us he warns us that idols never love us back and never save and sustain the way they promise, but the Lord loves us and saves and sustains us in a way no idol can.

If you want to read and study more on this particular topic here are some top recommendations. They’re great for smashing idols in our lives.

  • One PagePaul Tripp “Idol Worshippers” — The best one page summary of this concept and the image won’t leave your mind

  • One Seven Minute PodcastJohn Piper on What Is Idolatry? — A wonderful summation of the Biblical theme of idolatry in a simple and winsome format

  • One ArticleDavid Powlison on Idols of the Heart and Vanity Fair — It’s no exaggeration to say this article changed my life and helped me understand my heart better that I might turn to Christ

  • One Book — Tim Keller Counterfeit Gods — This book not only helps you understand idolatry but helps you through the process of replacing your idols with the Lord in the areas of money, sex, power, and much more

May the Lord help us see what to flee from and what to flee toward that we might find life.

-Ricky

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Resolved

This past Sunday Ricky encouraged us to live as “heavy metal Christians.” In other words, to be all in, all the time, in all things for the Glory of God. He introduced us to Jonathan Edwards, a man who began pastoring a church at 19 years old and created “resolves” for his life to help him live all in for Christ. Ricky followed Edwards’ example and drafted the following resolves as an example of how we can create our own resolves:

  1. Resolved, to pray that God would sovereignty direct my life for the greatest gospel impact. 

  2. Resolved, to consider honestly whether I should move to reach the unreached and give my life away for the sake of the gospel. And if not that, consider how else God has called me to give my life away for the sake of the gospel.

  3. Resolved, to decide what career and vocation to pursue not based on wealth or notoriety or excitement but on God’s calling and whether he might use it for the kingdom.

  4. Resolved, to decide where I’ll live not based on amenities and comfort and even family but on where God is sending me.

  5. Resolved, to plan to never retire and instead spend my life serving others and making an impact as long as God gives me the breath. 

  6. Resolved, if God leads me to join a church plant team and move away for the sake of the gospel.

  7. Resolved, to pray for my local church and that God would position me well to participate in its mission. 

  8. Resolved, to pick my church not based on comfort and convenience but on whether it’s clearly preaching the gospel and on mission.

  9. Resolved, to be the most committed and encouraging member of my small group so that those in the group might be strengthened for their individual missions. 

  10. Resolved, to search every Sunday for those who are new or out of place — they may well be those God is drawing to himself. 

  11. Resolved, to serve in kids ministry, youth ministry, and young adults ministry so that God might save the next generation of the church. 

  12. Resolved, to help resolve conflicts where I am involved and help others by being a peacemaker, so that the church’s mission might not be distracted and hindered.

  13. Resolved, to pray for the lost around me and ask God to send me into the harvest with opportunities to share the gospel. 

  14. Resolved, to study the Bible and gospel so that I might faithfully share it with others.

  15. Resolved, to become friends with people who don’t know Jesus and invite them into my life. 

  16. Resolved, when I’m regularly around people who don’t know Jesus, to not just sit there but learn their stories. 

  17. Resolved, to take every opportunity to share what Jesus has done for me and what he can do for others. 

  18. Resolved, if God does give me a family, to pray that God would help us be a family on mission. 

  19. Resolved, if not married to choose my spouse not only based on looks and compatibility but also on whether we’ll make an impact together for Jesus. 

  20. Resolved, to spend time not only managing my kids or playing with my kids but laboring to display and preach the gospel to my kids.

  21. Resolved, to be willing to say no to my kids at times so we can serve the Lord through building the church and reaching the lost. 

  22. Resolved, to pray that I’d live differently with all that God has given, seeing it not as mine but as God’s.

  23. Resolved, to plan my budget and spending with kingdom priorities, giving regularly to my local church and beyond it.

  24. Resolved, to plan my time and calendar with kingdom priorities that move even other good priorities like vacation and hobbies and comfort around. 

  25. Resolved, to set my time with God in your daily schedule as not optional but more necessary than eating and drinking. 

  26. Resolved, to help a brother or sister in Christ with finances as needed and as God allows.

  27. Resolved, to see anything I have or own as dust and air when I look ahead to eternity and therefore offer them in service to Christ. 

  28. Resolved, to do all of these motivated not by pride or by fear but by what Christ has done for me.

  29. Resolved, to fight the accusations and failures and condemnations of the enemy when I fail and fall with the blood of Christ and promise of glory.

  30. Resolved, to pursue the mission of Christ with all my might ultimately trusting not my resolve to cling to Christ but his resolve to cling to me.

As we go into a new month, we encourage you to think about one resolve you could dedicate yourself to. Let us be a church known for our “heavy metal” Christianity, known for being sold out for Jesus.

“Should nothing of our efforts stand, no legacy survive / Unless the Lord does raise the house, in vain its builders strive / To you who boast tomorrow’s gain, tell me what is your life / A mist that vanishes at dawn, all glory be to Christ” - All Glory Be to Christ by Gospel Community Worship

~ Abby

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10 prayer points for Sanctity of Life

In light of Sanctity of Life Sunday, Stephen Prescott shared 10 prayer points for us to pray about this week.

1. Pray for a softening of the hearts of U.S. governors, State lawmakers, and members of Congress to the gospel. Pray for them to see babies in the womb and their mothers as valuable people made in the image of God.

2. Pray for women around the world who feel as if they have no other option than to end the life of their unborn child.

3. Pray for the fathers of unborn children to encourage women to choose life for their child and that they would get involved with appropriate support for life.

4. Pray for the Church. Pray that she will be able to show love and compassion to women in unexpected pregnancies. Pray that she will continue this love and compassion for women that choose life or an abortion.

5. Pray for the Christ-exalting pregnancy resource centers throughout the U.S. and the world. Pray for their protection. Pray that women in unexpected pregnancies will be connected with them.

6. Pray for the abortion providers in the U.S. and around the world. Pray for their salvation, and for their eyes to be opened to the precious lives they are seeking to abort.

7. Pray for those providing abortion recovery services. Pray that women will connect to them and will learn about forgiveness and redemption through Christ.

8. Pray for OBGYNs. Pray that pro-life OBGYNs will flourish, and women will be led to these practices divinely.

9. Pray that the Lord will use whatever means necessary to give women truthful information about the adoption option.

10. Pray that, in God’s miraculous way, women will connect with Lifeline Children’s Services and other Christ-exalting pregnancy counseling ministries so that we will have an opportunity to share the gospel with them.

P.S. Prayer points taken from Image Bearers: Shifting from pro-birth to pro-life. lifelinechild.org/nextsteps

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Why are CGs Important?

The Shoffeitt Family

Why do we love and encourage CGs at Cross of Grace? Alec shared a bit about what CGs mean to our church family.

"I love Community Groups at Cross of Grace because it's all about family discipleship. We gather across our city, throughout the week, to help one another follow Jesus as brothers and sisters in Christ. We need one another! We are better together in community than we could ever be alone. I thank God for my community group because God has used them to help me grow as a husband, father, and follower of Jesus."

- Alec

This weekend we are having a Community Group fair in between services to help you get connected with a CG. Come meet some of the leaders and get plugged in!

P.S. Want to learn more about CGs? Visit https://crossofgrace.net/ministries

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COG’s Top 15

Colossians 3:16

"Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly, teaching and admonishing one another in all wisdom, singing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, with thankfulness in your hearts to God."

Each week, when we gather, we seek to follow God's desire that his people sing to Him together for the benefit of one another! Looking back over the last year, I was really encouraged to see the list of the top 15 songs that we've sung as the gathered body of Christ. I have a friend who likes to say, "The doxology of the church today is the theology of the church tomorrow." Basically, the songs we sing have a significant influence on what we believe about God. These top 15 songs represent not only a breadth of theological topics, but a depth of theological truth. The content of these songs helps us see the character of God, the grace, forgiveness, and mercy found in Jesus, and the help and conviction found through the Holy Spirit! These songs have helped us shout for joy at all that God has done, these songs have allowed us to boldly proclaim the gospel, and these songs have helped us walk through seasons of grief and look forward to the day when sin, pain, and death will be no more! These songs continue to help us hide the truths of God's Word in our hearts as we teach and admonish one another through our singing each Sunday.

As we navigate the joys and sorrows that 2024 will surely bring, let us continue to sing boldly, with thankfulness in our hearts to God, every time we gather!

- Jon Vogan

P.S. To listen to the playlists, see the following links:

Spotify:https://open.spotify.com/playlist/51oJmD1vizQJuXtswhBQ7i?si=c4a66f55b57c4dc0

Apple Music: https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/cog-top-15-2023/pl.u-Aekei7197MZ

YouTube: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLY5aTBdyK3DL_trUvK7h2QI-ngLVoF14m&feature=shared

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RELAY Young Adult Conference 2024

This past weekend was the first-ever Sovereign Grace RELAY Conference! Over 700 young adults from across the U.S. attended, including a group from COG. It was an incredible time of teaching, worship, and fun, all for the glory of God.

Let us continue to pray that young adults in the church will continue to grow a fire in their hearts for Jesus!

P.S. At the conference, Ricky discussed the Christian life in the power of the Spirit and addressed two key reasons we receive gifts. You can read it at https://jralcantar.substack.com/p/carry-the-fire-breakout-outline

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A New Years Challenge

As we kick off the year many of us make resolutions like “I’m going to get fit this year” or “I’ll only eat one donut a week” or “I’m going to read a book every month.” Good resolutions can be helpful but I’ve found that often that resolving to start patterns is better than any one specific goal. Patterns tend to shape our life day to day, month to month, and beyond. So with that in mind here’s my new years challenge.

1) Read a book on the cross in January

The gospel is of “first importance” according to 1 Cor 15. If so, what better way to start the year than with what is of first importance? Read a book on the cross this month.

Here are a few to start with:

  • What did the cross achieve? — Packer // A short punchy introduction to the cross.

  • FREE — 50 Reasons Jesus Came to Die — Piper // This one is short and punchy and perfect for reading a handful each day in January. And you can download it completely for free.

  • Living the Cross-Centered Life — Mahaney // This set of teachings changed the way I thought about the cross — not just as something I believed in one, but something that changes me every day.

  • The Cross of Christ — Stott // This is a challenging read but so rewarding. Stott helps us see the cross as a diamond in its beauty and complexity.

2) Find a worship anthem for the year

I love the line in the hymn “Come Thou Fount” that says “tune my hear to sing thy praise.” It’s helpful to “tune” our hearts to where they should be and I’ve found that starting the year with a worship anthem (louder the better) serves my soul.

Find some great anthems recommended by Jon Vogan (our music team lead) here

3) Get outside

Nature declares the glory of God according to Psalm 19 and starting the year spending time in creation is a key practice for me. It reminds me that I’m small, that God is big, and that he is glorious. Find a trail near you.

4) Set a time a place to meet with God

This might be the most important one. Rather than focusing on a big goal, focus on setting a pattern for the year. Find a specific time to meet with God every day. Have a plan. Get consistent. Read the word. Pray. It can be as simple as starting with reading one Psalm per day and praying the Lord’s prayer, or involve a whole plan to read through the Bible in a year. But start a pattern this month and carry it forward.

Prize?

Achieving the challenge is its own reward but if you complete the 4 for 2024 challenge you’ll get a victory sticker at the end of the month. I love free stickers.

Now get after it.

-Ricky

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